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The Fastest Way to Become the Person You Want to Be

Personality isn’t fixed — we just let ourselves get predictable People tend to default to the roles imposed by social environments. Putting yourself in new environments, around new people, and taking on new roles are the quickest ways to access different facets of your personality, for better or worse. Fully

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7 Easy And Fun Ways To Change Your Life In The Next 2 Months

Making big changes in your life isn’t about moving across the country, or storming into your office and quitting your job. Big changes are the result of small tweaks. Whether your goal is to finish a project, change your friend group, make more time for passion projects, or improve upon

Personal Growth, Thought Leaders, Thought Leadership

A Psychologist’s Extremely Practical Guide to Achieving Your Goals

Viktor Frankl survived the Holocaust. From his perspective, there was one reason why: He was able to maintain a sense of purpose. As he wrote in his vital memoir Man’s Search for Meaning, those in the concentration camps who lost a sense of hope quickly decayed, while those who saw

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The Hardest Lesson I Learned Last Year

It’s okay to show the world who I really am “You can’t build this website with this text. It’s not right.” I was showing one of my best friends some of the text that I was planning to include on the new version of my website. His opinion was clear.

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Your Most Valuable Asset In Life Is Not What You Think It Is

You have gifts you don’t even think are gifts    “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved.” — Helen Keller Most people look at the world with a glass-half-empty mindset.

Absolute Influence, Personal Growth

How to Gain Powerful Insights from your Emotions

What are Fear, Anger and Sadness telling you? I used to wish emotions didn’t exist. I used to think they are a useless part of human nature that just deteriorates us from rational thinking. I felt like the only thing emotions do are coming at us, out of nowhere and

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Listening Is the Skill We Need Right Now, and Here’s What I’m Hearing

Smart people need to pay attention, especially now The ability to listen. Really listen. It’s a rare skill right now. Most of us are only hearing what we want to hear. But are we really listening? I’ve been trying. I haven’t written much until now. But scary events occur on

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How to Find a Best Friend

“Of all possessions a friend is the most precious.” — Herodotus Most people have friends. But not all friends are the same. Some friends are what I call “proximity friends.” These are people that you become friends with because you are in the same area for a period of time.

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8 Horrible Habits That Are Ruining Your Productivity (and What You Can Do to Fix Them)

If there is one thing in life people underestimate, it is the impact of their daily habits. Whether you want to admit it or not, the truth is that just about everything in life can be directed back to your habits. Long-term success is the result of good habits. Positive relationships

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How to measure achievement, instead of hours

It’s time to stop clock-watching and focus on more important measures of success We all know Charles Darwin, the father of modern evolutionary studies and the author of On the Origin of Species, among other important works. What you might not know is that Charles Darwin was basically the Tim Ferriss

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